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The Easiest Ways to Create S*xual Attraction With ANY Woman (without being creepy)
Modern dating is often reduced to swiping, algorithms, and endless messaging, yet many men still find themselves struggling to make real connections. Blaine Anderson, a dating coach who has helped thousands of men improve their love lives, is here to cut through the noise. Dating isn’t about tricks or perfect pick-up lines—it’s about confidence, presence, and understanding what truly attracts women.
In this episode, @DatingByBlaine breaks down why men struggle to stand out, the common mistakes that turn women off, and how technology has reshaped modern relationships. She shares insights on navigating dating apps, approaching women in real life, and creating real chemistry without relying on outdated tactics. Whether you’re looking for a serious relationship or just trying to improve your dating confidence, this conversation is packed with practical advice on becoming the kind of man women genuinely want to be around.
00:00 Meeting Blaine and her coaching story
02:28 Modern dating's biggest hurdles
06:24 Dating apps vs. meeting in real life
09:42 Simple upgrades for men's dating success
14:41 Reading signals and making approaches
24:51 Mastering the first date experience
30:51 Body language that speaks volumes
35:31 Why ghosting happens and how to handle it
39:12 What truly attracts women
47:40 Navigating casual versus serious dating
52:08 Inside the matchmaking process
56:32 Should men listen to women's dating advice?
1:00:26 Finding love while building a career
1:05:04 Dating in Dubai's unique landscape
1:08:19 How technology is changing romance
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Approaching women, it doesn't really matter what you say.
It's more about how you say it.
What you say next and being able to hold a conversation
is gonna be more important than those first words themselves.
Blaine Anderson is a dating coach,
helping men improve their dating skills
and attract meaningful relationships.
If you take every rejection personally
and a hit to your ego,
you're not gonna get very far meeting women in real life.
And if a woman doesn't want you,
then it's like, okay, her loss.
We can agree that environments or situations where you will maximize your options.
We're finding the right type of girl.
Yeah.
So first of all...
I tell people all the time, if you are struggling to get second dates...
Look for these signs.
You've got yourself in this environment and then somebody takes your fancy.
Yeah.
What are some of the best ways that you can go about approaching them?
So step by step, I love if you can...
What's up guys and welcome back to First Things Thirst.
We have a special guest today in Austin, Texas, Blaine Anderson.
Hi, thanks for having me.
So you are a dating coach.
True.
So you specialize in helping men in the dating process and finding a partner or actually
helping people who have already found a partner and you're helping their existing relationship?
My specialty is helping men date better.
So it's the dating process to find a partner.
A lot of what I talk about and teach will also help in the relationship phase, but that's
not primarily what I'm focused on.
How did you get into this?
Yeah, I kind of stumbled into it.
I worked in the travel industry prior to 2020, and then when the pandemic hit, people stopped
traveling, so my business stopped having business.
And I had always loved talking about dating, and I was constantly finding myself helping
my guy friends with their dating app profiles and giving them dating advice.
So my boyfriend at the time, who's now my husband, suggested, why don't you take everything
that you are telling these guys individually and compile it into a course.
So that is when my first and most popular course, my dating masterclass was born in
2020.
And there's clearly a demand for it.
Yeah, I've had over 6,000 clients, so it's doing quite well.
And I think that just illustrates sort of the time we're in and that people are really
struggling, both men and women, with dating.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I don't think it's…
