8個小細節看穿一個人真實性格︳心理學心得
想要了解一個人的真實性格嗎？透過觀察這8個小細節，你可以更深入地瞭解對方。心理學告訴我們，人的行為中蘊藏了許多信息，讓我們來看看如何大致判斷一個人的性格。
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大家好,歡迎來到禁鐘人。
今天我們要講的是能夠讓你了解一個人的八個小細節。
我們都有想要去了解其他人的慾望,
無論是工作同事、新朋友或是自己熟悉的人。
而心理學告訴我們,人是複雜的,
並沒有一個快速簡單的方法能夠讓你在短時間內就了解一個人的真實性格。
但是透過觀察一些日常生活中的細節,
我們可以更深入的去了解對方。
In fact, many times, people around us will unconsciously reveal a lot of information about themselves.
And usually this information is hidden in their behavior.
If you want to understand them without their awareness,
in addition to good observational skills,
the most important thing is to have enough knowledge to identify the information they unknowingly revealed.
Without further ado, let's get started.
1. Clothing Style
观察一个人的穿着风格是去认识一个人一个表情的
you can get a general understanding of this person
For example,
a person who likes to wear high-end clothing
with some accessories
or who pursues fashion trends
will usually care more about
what others think of themselves than others.
A person who likes to wear formal, clean,
and neat clothes
like shirts or suits
usually pays more attention to their image.
They may have higher self-requirements
and have a high self-esteem
People who like to wear popular brands or casual clothes
and dresses
will pay more attention to their own feelings
rather than others' opinions
In their daily life, they will pay more attention to
whether they feel comfortable and free
A person who doesn't wear shorts or sleeves
and likes to cover their body with large-scale clothes
or people who often wear masks
are usually introverted and low-key
and even more self-abased
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The casual style of clothing usually means that this person strongly agrees with their identity
They are also more confident in themselves
In addition, clothing can also reflect a person's emotional state
When a person feels depressed, anxious, or in a bad state
They may choose to wear casual, messy clothes
When in a good mood or happy, they will choose to wear bright or delicate clothes
Second, the way to treat different people
The way a person treats others can greatly reflect their inner world, emotional depth, and personality traits.
We can observe the way a person treats acquaintances and strangers to make some simple judgments about their personality.
